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Hi everyone I'm 60 and very recently been diagnosed with TNBC stage 2, routine screening. Everything is happening so quickly!!! Biopsy 5th Oct, results 14th. High contrast mammogram 16th, PET scan 21st Oct. I saw my breast surgeon on 28th, Cancer hasn't spread, small tumor and one lymph node. Then 30th I saw medical oncologist, discussed chemo and immunotherapy, side effects everything. Prognosis is positive, surgery after Chemo, dependant on Brca blood tests, then radiotherapy. Im still in shock, it's a lot to take in!! I have good days then bad. I feel numb, sad, angry and sorry for myself, is that normal? My chemo should start in the next few weeks. I'm worried about how I'll cope. My husband broke his leg in August, so he can't drive, he's on crutches, I'm his carer! What should I expect from the chemo? Can I drive, can I still work? I apologise for all the questions, thanks in advance x DB94ViewsSign in to react to this post8CommentsNew diagnosis
Well , just diagnosed yesterday now . My head is still spinning . It has been a very stressful long week awaiting biopsy results following my 2 yearly routine mammogram. Age 60 , recently retired , how often did you hear that and think , well that sucks , well here I am …….. ER Positive Invasive Carcinoma . Finding the waiting the hardest , GP follow up on Wednesday to organise my follow up referrals for surgery expected within the next four weeks , dependent on Lymph node involvement treatment options . Seemed quite positive that I have been lucky to have caught it early36ViewsSign in to react to this post2CommentsJust diagnosed - it's all moving so fast
Hi everyone, I was just diagnosed yesterday (Wednesday) with DCIS, plus a focal area of invasive carcinoma NST, provisional grade 2, ER and PR positive and HER2 negative. I meet with the surgeon tomorrow and it all just feels like it is happening so fast my mind is swirling. Very thankful to have found this site as I have already found so much useful information!132ViewsSign in to react to this post4CommentsJust diagnosed
Hi, I thought I would introduce myself here. I am 49 years old and have just been diagnosed (two days ago) with an Invasive Ductal Carcinoma in my left breast. HR+ HER 2 negative, provisional grade 1, 4 small lumps. Will be meeting my surgeon at RBWH next week on Wednesday. The last 11 days, since the Breast screen recall feel like a blur. So much has happened and of course I didn’t anticipate any of that (lumps aren’t palpable). I have been directed here by the wonderful nurse from the Breast Screen and am very grateful to find so much support and information. I haven’t told my kids or friends yet so it feels good to be able to open up here.350ViewsSign in to react to this post14CommentsWaiting, waiting, waiting….
Hi all, diagnosed 1st September, multifocal invasive lobular carcinoma. Surgeons appt scheduled for 17 September. Surgeon has referred me for an mri with contrast. The surgeon completed my biopsies (3) in breast screen clinic, so I’ve met her. My biggest question now is how long do you wait for the mri apointment? They acknowledge receipt of ‘urgent referral’ on 2nd of September and now it’s the 10th, they’re telling me they are waiting on ‘protocols’, my breast care nurse is wonderful and is following it up along with me, how long did you all wait? I thought I was coping not too bad, but today it all just seems really cruel……?323ViewsSign in to react to this post15CommentsVery difficult to listen the Podcast
Hi all, so I started listening to Charlotte's podcast. I just started the Episode 2. While this podcast is fantastic, I find it extremely hard to listen and my emotions just overcome me. I would love to know how is everyone going and what do you do to stay calm and not be a slobbering and emotional mess like me. 😔 Thank you everyone 💓425ViewsSign in to react to this post19CommentsFirst appointment with a surgeon
So my first appointment with a surgeon is this coming Wednesday. I am going through a public system in Brisbane. Will I be having any tests done on the same day or is it more likely that he will tell me to come back and get the tests done another day ? He’s got my mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy results already. Thank you!210ViewsSign in to react to this post7CommentsRadiotherapy
Hello everyone, l am going through my first radiotherapy this week and l was wondering can l take a NSAD prior to my treatment? I have bursitis on my shoulders and, during my mapping l found it so painful trying to lift my arms. I was thinking of neurofen. I would be grateful for any feedback. 🌸101ViewsSign in to react to this post2CommentsDiscussion about surgery with Surgeon
Hi all, I have been diagnosed with invasive breast cancer and I have my first meeting with the surgeon on Thursday. I know to expect surgery soon but dont know if this will be lumpectomy or mastectomy. I know that this will be one of the things to discuss on Thursday but I am curious if there is a 'choice' - in a sense part of me just wants to be told which option but I wondered if anyone here made a decision one way or the other and how they felt about that? Am also putting this query in the treatment thread as I have not posted before and not sure which is better for this. Thanks for any thoughts.352ViewsSign in to react to this post17CommentsNewly Diagnosed with further tests required
Hi. I was diagnosed a little over a week ago and I had a surgeon appointment today. She wants an MRI as my breast tissue is so dense some of the images are too vague for her to determine a clear surgery plan. But I have a potential surgery date for a few weeks time. I am thinking this is good that she is being thorough. But it does concern me as there may be more than meets the eye and she has given me that warning. Current knowledge is that I have 2 areas of concern, close to each other on same side, hormone positive, HER2 negative, provisional stage 1. One area is about 7mm, the other is ill defined and this is what she wants more images of. I feel better after meeting the surgeon, and hearing her explanation, her delivery of the plan from here and her general 'bedside manner' was the perfect amount of real. She took the time to understand what was concerning me. I am running the Sydney Marathon at the end of the month and after doing all the training and prep I would have been devastated if I couldn't run it. However we have a plan to get me there. So even though I need more scans to be certain of exactly what is going on, I am feeling as good as can be as there is some progress. In the back of my mind, is what if it is more than the fairly common and small areas I have? I can't dwell as it is what it is. I will focus on the run and deal with these things as they arise!216ViewsSign in to react to this post4CommentsSo it turns out waiting is not for me….
Hi everyone- my name is Jenni and I was diagnosed last Tuesday 28/07/26 with invasive ductal carcinoma and DCIS. I was told a surgeon would be in touch within the week after getting a referral the same day. I have since requested my GPs reception to forward the referral twice - and was met with such hostility I will change doctors. We found out today that the referral was still not sent and hadn't got to where it needed to go. So my husband did a round trip (over an hour as we live in rural Vic) and went and got a hard copy from my GP and took it to the cancer care clinic as instructed via phone- to be told they did not need it yet and he nicely insisted she take a copy and give it to my BC nurse - I am so overwhelmed- how quickly should surgery be happening? I’m sorry to vent but its been a lot ❤️🌸377ViewsSign in to react to this post9CommentsFear of the unknown
I have recently been diagnosed last week l had a lumpectomy and nodes removed for further examination and, now l am anxious fearful about the follow up appointment this week. I really would like to become an ostrich put my head in the sand as l am not looking forward to their findings.223ViewsSign in to react to this post6CommentsA little vanity…
Hey chat,first time query having just been diagnosed, starting chemo 11/08. If anyone has experience with having created their eyebrows before losing them, that would be appreciated. Also, I read in the TCHP side effects document, not to keep ‘fake’ nails, however, my oncologist said ‘good, keep your acrylics for nails protection’ , if anyone can give me your feedback, I’d appreciate it, thankyou.140ViewsSign in to react to this post1Commenta difficult day
Today was my PET scan & also a CT scan. Awful. but I did it. I’m just still struggling with the enormity of it all. It’s surreal. I feel like I’m in a bad dream. And on the scan table I was wondering how the hell I got here. I’m scared. I cry lots. I know I’ve posted this before 🫶🏻 it’s good to be able to get it out! Thanks for listening 🌸240ViewsSign in to react to this post6CommentsDevastated and confused
Hi all, I have just been diagnosed with early breast cancer and I am absolutely devastated, confused and just overwhelmed. So much is going through my head and I am just beside myself. I am completely lost and would love to chat to others. Thank you443ViewsSign in to react to this post23CommentsWrite off 6 to 12 months?
I was given a diagnosis today of small tumor, early invasive breast cancer, double hormone positive and I have an appointment with surgeon in 1 week. At just-turned-60, the next 9 months were supposed to include 2 sons' graduations, 1 son's wedding (a family first), our 25th wedding celebration, a road trip to find-purchase-or-build a new home in a tree-change location in another state, and downsizing-packing-relocating. Surgeon and nurse at breast clinic today seemed to think "we can work around things" ...is that realistic? What is the most valuable question to ask the surgeon, next week, re time frames and realistic expectations? Thanks.490ViewsSign in to react to this post7Commentsfloundering
Hey everyone Im new here and just found out I have invasive lobular carcinoma grade 2. I’m in shock after a whirlwind 2 weeks of tests. Today it’s hit me hard. I’m 68. I’m now taking Letrzole and surgery is 12th August. I’m having a lumpectomy and although no lymph nodes are involved, the surgeon is taking 3 nodes for testing. I am also dealing with CPTSD and all of this has triggered me. I just cry a lot. I don’t know who to turn to for support. I do have husband & family. I’m not sleeping which doesn’t help. It’s just so overwhelming151ViewsSign in to react to this post4CommentsTo take Tamoxifen or not to take it.
Hi, Im awaiting my oncology appointment which will clarify if I need to take tamoxifen for my situation : Grade 1 tumours, bilateral masectomy recently done, less than 7mm tumours each in size (multifocal) no lymph. Hormone receptive cancer. Does anyone have a similar profile above and been told they won’t need tamoxifen? I am dreading taking this drug. If I have grade one tumours and a bilateral mastectomy my chances are already so low of recurrence…🤞109ViewsSign in to react to this post1CommentFeeling angry
I have recently been diagnosed and had a lumpectomy last Thursday. I’m feel fine not overly sore but tired. Mine was picked up on a mammograms so early and I’m very grateful and know how lucky I am. I’m ok with diagnosis 1 in 7 my turn. The issue is I’ve been through so much recently and I’m finding myself angry. Well the last 2 days. 2 knee replacements, fibromyalgia, depression, late adhd diagnosis at 62, mum with dementia I’ve had to put into care, I sold her house without her knowing which is heart breaking - no help from siblings and that just this year. Lol. I had a breakdown a few years ago through work, got divorced, my dog died and I burnt my nachos the other day. A bit of light relief. There is more but that will do. I’m exhausted keeping a lid on everything. I’ve spoken to my psychologist who suggested Emdr. I’m by myself and just so angry. My kids have their own lives and basically my safe place is my home (with a massive mortgage) and my dogs. I had started a wonderful new business but have had to put that on hold until I find out what happens next. Which is next Monday. This is not a why me post it’s a is it normal to be angry. Not all the time but it’s scathing and my dogs have heard some words that I have never mentioned before. I’m not really good at asking for help. And was disappointed with the support I received with my knee replacements so reluctant to go through that rejection again. I think maybe it’s the lack of control, not knowing where we go from here. Again I know how lucky I am and whatever treatment (looks like radiation and hormone therapy and possibly another op and chemo if it’s travelled) I will gladly do and be thankful. I guess I’m just bewildered and have no idea what’s normal and whats not. And if I’ve honest I’m teary too. Ok I feel lonely and unsupported as well.222ViewsSign in to react to this post3Comments
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