Completely overwhelmed
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Loobylou in June 2011 my GP explained the differences between Public and Private health. I decided to go public with everything. I had surgery, CT scans, ultrasounds, physiotherapy, medication etc. and the only cost has been parking fees. This forum will help you make sense of all manner of things particularly in the early days when both thinking and emotions go into overload. xxxxBeryl
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If you want to go public @Loobylou, you are living in the right place as there are excellent services close to you.
The private/public debate rages on. If you can afford it, private practitioners are an option. If you can't, go public for some procedures. As Kate has pointed out, it is essential to find out what the out of pocket costs are before you commit to anyone.
Chemotherapy is free, regardless of who prescribes it, you do, however pay for discharge medications and any private specialists you use.
The main consideration when it comes to oncologists is whether you like your doctor. If you don't take to them, find another.
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I am so hyper aware of the lump, feel like it's pulsing... Sure it's all in my head but my boob is sore, could be all the checking I do - hoping it's gone!0
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Hi @Loobylou sorry that you find yourself here, but you will find great support from our online community members. I thinks its only normal to be so aware of the breast lump now that the diagnosis has been made. Dont hesitate to call our helpline on 1800 500 258 to speak with a cancer nurse for information and support. We are open Monday to Friday from 9 am till 6 pm. It will be a huge relief to have your surgery, wishing you all the best with your treatment.0
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Hi Loobylou,
I also was diagnosed with a triple negative breast cancer back in October last year.
I have been going through the public system and haven’t got a bad word to say about the system.
The Care is no different, it doesn’t hit your hip pocket either.
I had one of the best surgeons and breast cancer nurses, they were all so wonderful.
Ask the breast care nurses at your surgeons rooms to put you in touch with a breast care nurse close to you, they can also recommend you to a Psychologist to help you get through this roller coaster ride of emotional feelings you will have.
I enrolled into a mindfulness and meditation class which helped me a lot with my anxiety levels.
I had surgery in December and had a partial mastectomy on my left breast and two lymph nodes removed, all with clear margins and clear lymph nodes. Best outcome ever, so hold onto that hope.
Just started Chemotherapy, and then once completed will be having Radiotherapy.
My tumour once removed was 25mm in size, and a grade 3, ( aggressive).
You will be going through so many different emotions at the moment, cry let it all out, scream, what ever you need to do to let it all out.
Having trouble sleeping see your dr and get something to help you sleep.
I remember so well how I couldn’t sleep at night in the early stages, once I got a script from my dr, I was able to sleep which meant I could function better and cope with what I was going through.
Ask away any questions you may have and any of these lovely people will help you through this tough time.
Remember you’re not alone.... We all know what you’re going through and how you’re feeling.
Thus a great forum full of information.
Sending big hugs xoxo6 -
Hey @Shellshocked2018_ Hope all going well with you and the chemo. xox0
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Hi Kitkat sent a private message xx1
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So oncologist tomorrow, cried through my scans yesterday. Nurses were so nice I just couldn't keep it together.
Feel I need to be strong and matter of fact for my hubby and kids, so they aren't too spooked. But am so scared there will be more cancer in there. Just rang the consultants rooms to make sure the oncologist would have everything!
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Deep breaths lovely. Take it one hour at a time. Big hug, K xox1
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Always harder when people are nice!2
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Hi @Loobylou Everyone here is sending you virtual hugs. Know that you are wrapped and cocooned.3
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Hi @Loobylou know you don’t have to be strong all the time. Be sure to take someone with you tomorrow for support. Remember your health care team is there for you so don’t hesitate to let them know how you are feeling so they can help you the best they can. Take care of you.4
