Go Forth...and live your life!
Hi Everyone,
It has been a LONG time since I have been back online. The past few months have been one hell of a road trip indeed.
The months away have been spent, trying to get through numerous rounds of chemotherapy, each one systematically throwing endless side effects that eventually took their toll on my health. I spent a fair bit of the time crawling my way from bed to bathroom with months of diarrhea and having a good cry session at how "crap" my life had become (pun intended). I had several trips to the hospital with chest pains that had the doctors pretty concerned, only to realise my body was rejecting the chemo but I persevered till the end.
I THINK the doctors thought telling me "Wow, we didnt think you would survive?" was somehow reassuring - ah that would be a negative!
Thinking I would get hopefully some sort of break between chemo and radiation was delusional. 3 weeks after finishing chemo, I was laying on my back, topless getting zapped for 6 long weeks. My skin handled the radiation exceptionally well, until 8 days after the last dose, I woke to horrendous pain, the loss of the use of my left arm and covered in about 400 blisters from mid torso to my neck and around my side.
I discovered I was highly allergic to the flamazine cream, which created huge open ulcerated sections and I looked like I had been baking myself in a 3000 degree oven. Thankfully, all is healed and I am back to looking "normal".
The energy levels are still low, the metallic taste is gone, I can no longer look at a Pork Chop without throwing up and ice blocks are still my favourite go to food! I still need the odd afternoon nap, however one good thing has occurred - I have lost over 11 kilos and feel happier.
I must admit, the visit to the Oncologist to begin the next step in life - "what tablet shall I swallow each day?" brought some very interesting information that had previously been unspoken by the medical team. It is amazing when a new doctor takes over from the old one and inadvertently informs you some facts that had been kept VERY quiet, in fact I think the C.I.A. would have been impressed by the secrecy....it has made me wonder whether the rather blase comment of "Go forth and live your life" uttered by the Radiation Oncologist was a standard routine comment, so they can sign you off the books?
When the word "IS" is uttered and not "was" when talking about my BC, made my eyebrows raise.
Anyway, while I wrap my head around the sheer fact that I have surprised my medical team by actually surviving - no, I am not joking! They seemed to take great joy in telling me that over and over. I am trying to get my life back into some sort of actual semblance of activities that dont evolve around the word "Cancer". Slightly hysterical in actuality considering that has been the number one bloody owner occupier of my life for the past 12 months!
By the way - Letrozole (Femara) seems to be the chosen tablet for the next 7 years of my life. I have been researching the side effects and I seriously hope and pray, my body along with its constant companion LUPUS, doesn't resort to throwing every single one of them at me! I am to be honest, dreading it.
If you have managed to get this far......I have a question - has ANYONE REFUSED to take the medication and if so, how has it affected you??
I am asking merely to give myself various options so when i see the Oncologist - I go armed with information and not merely accepting their word as gospel. I have learnt over this past year, as much as I wanted to hide my head - I cant and couldn't. I needed to know what I was up against and also in some cases have serious discussions as to alternatives with the Medical team.... just so i could survive.
So for the next few months, while I do the routine scans, tests, bone density, teeth check and wait to see the Oncologist again - I am looking forward to welcoming my third grandchild into the world (our first grand-daughter), see my beloved friend get married to the Love of her life and spend time swimming before the cold once again hits us.
Life is sweet....hectic but sweet. I can now enjoy simply being LOIS once again....
Big hugs and thank you for reading this!
Lois
It has been a LONG time since I have been back online. The past few months have been one hell of a road trip indeed.
The months away have been spent, trying to get through numerous rounds of chemotherapy, each one systematically throwing endless side effects that eventually took their toll on my health. I spent a fair bit of the time crawling my way from bed to bathroom with months of diarrhea and having a good cry session at how "crap" my life had become (pun intended). I had several trips to the hospital with chest pains that had the doctors pretty concerned, only to realise my body was rejecting the chemo but I persevered till the end.
I THINK the doctors thought telling me "Wow, we didnt think you would survive?" was somehow reassuring - ah that would be a negative!
Thinking I would get hopefully some sort of break between chemo and radiation was delusional. 3 weeks after finishing chemo, I was laying on my back, topless getting zapped for 6 long weeks. My skin handled the radiation exceptionally well, until 8 days after the last dose, I woke to horrendous pain, the loss of the use of my left arm and covered in about 400 blisters from mid torso to my neck and around my side.
I discovered I was highly allergic to the flamazine cream, which created huge open ulcerated sections and I looked like I had been baking myself in a 3000 degree oven. Thankfully, all is healed and I am back to looking "normal".
The energy levels are still low, the metallic taste is gone, I can no longer look at a Pork Chop without throwing up and ice blocks are still my favourite go to food! I still need the odd afternoon nap, however one good thing has occurred - I have lost over 11 kilos and feel happier.
I must admit, the visit to the Oncologist to begin the next step in life - "what tablet shall I swallow each day?" brought some very interesting information that had previously been unspoken by the medical team. It is amazing when a new doctor takes over from the old one and inadvertently informs you some facts that had been kept VERY quiet, in fact I think the C.I.A. would have been impressed by the secrecy....it has made me wonder whether the rather blase comment of "Go forth and live your life" uttered by the Radiation Oncologist was a standard routine comment, so they can sign you off the books?
When the word "IS" is uttered and not "was" when talking about my BC, made my eyebrows raise.
Anyway, while I wrap my head around the sheer fact that I have surprised my medical team by actually surviving - no, I am not joking! They seemed to take great joy in telling me that over and over. I am trying to get my life back into some sort of actual semblance of activities that dont evolve around the word "Cancer". Slightly hysterical in actuality considering that has been the number one bloody owner occupier of my life for the past 12 months!
By the way - Letrozole (Femara) seems to be the chosen tablet for the next 7 years of my life. I have been researching the side effects and I seriously hope and pray, my body along with its constant companion LUPUS, doesn't resort to throwing every single one of them at me! I am to be honest, dreading it.
If you have managed to get this far......I have a question - has ANYONE REFUSED to take the medication and if so, how has it affected you??
I am asking merely to give myself various options so when i see the Oncologist - I go armed with information and not merely accepting their word as gospel. I have learnt over this past year, as much as I wanted to hide my head - I cant and couldn't. I needed to know what I was up against and also in some cases have serious discussions as to alternatives with the Medical team.... just so i could survive.
So for the next few months, while I do the routine scans, tests, bone density, teeth check and wait to see the Oncologist again - I am looking forward to welcoming my third grandchild into the world (our first grand-daughter), see my beloved friend get married to the Love of her life and spend time swimming before the cold once again hits us.
Life is sweet....hectic but sweet. I can now enjoy simply being LOIS once again....
Big hugs and thank you for reading this!
Lois
