@Dory65 I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know how i will handle mum not being here any more, i know it could be years but i know its coming eventually. All my life i knew the day would come where my mum would grow old and possibly ill. I always thought that i would be more prepared. But you're never prepared for something like this. I'm just happy shes well for now. I know there will be ups and downs. I'm glad for the most part shes realistic about her diagnosis.