Night Howls

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  • kmakm
    kmakm Member Posts: 7,974
    Good on you @Sarnicad! Never mind the laundry, doing these little things help us through the chemo slog. What colour are your nails?!
  • Sarnicad
    Sarnicad Member Posts: 318
    A red and a green very festive. Hopefully the photos work 
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  • Sarnicad
    Sarnicad Member Posts: 318
    Toes in green
  • kmakm
    kmakm Member Posts: 7,974
    @Sarnicad Love it. Very Christmassy!
  • Sister
    Sister Member Posts: 4,961
    I have to get my body clock back to normal before I go back to work in few weeks.  It doesn't seem to matter whether I give in and go to bed at 9pm or struggle to stay awake until later - I still wake up around 4am (or earlier if I have bad dreams or night sweats).
  • Kiwi Angel
    Kiwi Angel Member Posts: 1,952
    @Sister I’m still struggling with my body clock 3 months out - sux!!
  • Kiwi Angel
    Kiwi Angel Member Posts: 1,952
    @Sarnicad good luck today xo
  • kmakm
    kmakm Member Posts: 7,974
    @Sister That's where the melatonin came in useful for me, resetting.the body clock a tad.
  • kmakm
    kmakm Member Posts: 7,974
    Well my nightmare holiday continues. It seems that despite the flesh eating feral pigs I did eventually catch that train because I've just dreamed about checking into my hotel. But instead of getting a lovely room, I was put in a hospital room. Cancer much?!
  • Sarnicad
    Sarnicad Member Posts: 318
    @Sister if it had been his tie i’d have said bad luck and emailed his teacher and year coordinator but his shirt was a bit different. This is my high functioning autism boy so I do probably accomodate him a bit more than his siblings particularly when he is stressing about things which he was yesterday as the run he was doing was a time trial for the cross country team for school and he was obsessing over that!  Plus he is a rule follower at school and they’d been revved at an assembly the day before about uniform and presentation (shaving etc) it would have caused a full fledged melt down and then home bears the full force of that. Nothing like an emotional angry 6 foot 3 bundle of boy. I just want an easy life!

    nice sleep last night so hopefully today won’t be too bad
  • Sister
    Sister Member Posts: 4,961
    edited September 2018
    Yep, different circumstances @sarnicad I wonder if he could come up with any strategies when he's feeling calm? I know that dealing with autistic kids, and helping them to learn to manage, has it's own special challenges.
  • Sarnicad
    Sarnicad Member Posts: 318
    @Sister we try that but sometimes the emotional trigger is not very far away!  Interestingly last night when he wanted money for a movie today and we said we will put it in your bank account and he couldn’t find his bank card he suddenly became highly motivated to find it and found his 2(yes he has to have 2 cause he loses them all the time) myki cards so I finally have my one back and he found his atm card as well. Miracles do happen!

    seriously this is the child that the sooner the govt moves to alternate technology for paying public transport fees the better he would play find your myki at least once a week. We actually have a leaving the house checklist just for him - do you have your phone, keys, myki, laptop, (fill in the need of the day). Drives me batty but sometimes it is the only way to make it work. He can be so rigid in so many things. He has an order to get dressed in which was probably his order(social story) since prep and he can not deviate so if the item he needs to put on is not ready the whole production stops. So say it is jocks, shorts/pants, shirt, tie etc. if his shorts are still in the dryer then he can’t get dressed, he can’t just put his shirt on like anyone else would and get his socks on and then brush teeth nope he just stops dead. Extremely frustrating 
  • kmakm
    kmakm Member Posts: 7,974
    @Sarnicad My kids (4) are not autistic and we have used the checklist on the door method more than once... My 15yo would forget her head if it wasn't attached to her shoulders!