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  • nikkid
    nikkid Member Posts: 1,769
    Thinking of you @Bowie.....looking forward to hearing from you afterwards Nikki xxxx
  • SoldierCrab
    SoldierCrab Member Posts: 3,430
    How are you travelling @Bowie ? been thinking about you and hoping that you are coping with this stage of the roller coaster and know we are thinking of you. 
    Soldier Crab

  • Pammy46
    Pammy46 Member Posts: 162
    @Bowie hope you ok xx
  • lgray3911
    lgray3911 Member Posts: 207
    @bowie how did it all go? Hope you're ok xx
  • Hopes_and_Dreams
    Hopes_and_Dreams Member Posts: 760
    Hello @Bowie, hope you are doing well and not in too much pain. These early days can be overwhelming. Rest and heal and us know how you are when you can.  Until then, we have you in our thoughts.   Jane xx. 
  • melclarity
    melclarity Member Posts: 3,531
    @Bowie just wanted to let you know i am thinking of you and hope to hear soon how you are. Bug hugs Melinda x 
  • au0rei
    au0rei Member Posts: 252

    Bowie said:

    I'm am so scared beyond belief. I'm having my Double Masc tomorrow and lymph nodes as well ..l feel like lm going to go insane and run from the hospital ..l have cried for 2 days of and on ..spoke to BC nurse and friends ..l feel like l will end up in a phys ward or something ...l really dont no how you have all come through this ...please please some hopeful words ...My daughter said that your brain will accept it after it is done ..it the lead up to it and the anxiety ...going flat as can't have reco ..Omg ..will l be ok 

    Hi hun, I hope you are feeling better and stronger now. I know it's hard not to cry but being calm is important. I know there are a lot of apprehension and anxiety but you will be well taken care of by your medical team. When I lost my breast I did not cry, I just wanted to remove that heinous lump straightaway. I am not saying I am stronger than you, I am not. Some days I can be so plagued by anxiety and all the what ifs. For me I find my source of strength in God whom I choose to trust, because I am so weak and unreliable. Take one step at a time, find something to keep you busy. I listen to music and sermons on you tube. Or even funny videso on you tube to make me laugh out loud. Surround yourself with loved ones who support you, it's good to chat about your feelings with someone reliable. I find that helps me a lot. xxx