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Justtoomuch's avatar
7 years ago

Dealing with cancer while dealing with my own

Hi everyone. 5 years ago today I had surgety for DCIS. 4 years and 9 month later I was diagnosed with early BC. Surgery, radiation, ovaries removed, Arimidex. The whole program. I feel physically fine but the emotional side is a different matter. I have great support and my husband is my rock. Here comes the kicker. Just before my diagnosis in November a close friend of ours went into hospital for cancer related back surgery. His wife has been my support person last time. One week later my father in law was diagnosed with lung cancer. Fast forward to now and our dear friend has passed away and my father in law is recieving palliative care with days to live. I am trying so hard to keep it together. My 2 biggest supporters are suffering and I feel I should be helping them. My wonderful husband has lost a friend, is losing his dad and is trying to help me. How much more can he take? How can I ease his pain?
  • @Justtoomuch its ok to feel sorry for yourselfsomtimes, i do. However its a place to visitbriefly not to live in. Talking to everyone and thing helps. I have the most amazing in depth talks with my golden lab. She sits and listens and just loves unconditionally. I use mynetwork to anyone who has a shoulder but i have surprised myself with an inner strength and determination i never knew i had. I mark off every day on the calender counting down and try n wake up each day with a smile and one positive thought to get me thru. Chin up you are not alone, happy to chat anytime hun.
  • @Cathy_b1961
    What a beautiful caring post! Best wishes with where you are at with treatment and lots of cuddles and talks with your golden lab
    Hugs