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jo_c
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2 years ago

I’m in a grey area and confused

Hi, recently diagnosed early breast cancer. Invasive ductal carcinoma. Lumpectomy and reconstruction (breast reduction).
ER and PR +, Her2 -, Tumor grade 2 10mm, KI67 very low, 1 out of 3 lymph nodes positive small 2.5mm.
Lymph node has put me in grey area with chemo now being my choice. Ocnoassist states extra 3% survival 89%, hormone blocker 86%. Will be doing radiotherapy.
My oncologist said sometimes chemo risks outweigh benefits in my case since low risk but I needed to be advised of my options. He did not push either way and support either decision. If it were 1 or 2% would not be even talking.
So how does one make this hard choice ? There are so many what ifs? Do I want to put myself through 5 months of chemo? It’s so hard. Any advice would be amazing 
  • Sorry to see you join our exclusive little club @jo_c ... the one no-one ever thought they'd join xx

    It is such a personal choice and yes, it IS hard to make that decision.  I was lucky & didn't have to do chemo - so others who did will jump on soon with more personal advice from experience ...  but consider a room of 100 of your relatives and best friends .... knowing that 3 'won't make it' ..... which 3 would you think it should be?  I am thinking it would be None of them  :(   

    Sometimes you may just have to toss everything at it to know that you've done as much as you can to prevent a recurrence 

    Take care & all the best with your decision making xx