Guilt

ZarraTheStaffy​  Thank you for sharing so openly - it takes courage to express what you’re feeling, especially when you've felt those in your close circles seem to minimize it! What you’re experiencing is completely valid. A diagnosis like IDC is life-changing, and it’s normal to feel a whirlwind of emotions. You don’t need to push those feelings down just to make those around you more comfortable - processing them is an important part of this journey. It can be really hard when people try to comfort us by dismissing what we’re going through. Comments like “you’ll be fine,” or comparisons to others often come from a place of wanting to help by minimising the difficulties, but they can leave us feeling unseen. 

I’m so glad you have a supportive husband ❤️ and that you’ve found this community. Here, you don’t have to pretend to be okay or minimize what you’re feeling. We’re here to listen, support, and walk alongside you. Sending you a big virtual hug and strength - please reach out to the helpline if you need anything at all 💜

ZarraTheStaffy​ I have sent you a private message.