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Surgery and tail-end of a cold?
Hi everyone - I had a lumpectomy three weeks ago after a high grade DCIS diagnosis. Was due to go back last week for a re-excision to ensure clear margins but I’d caught a monster cold in the meantime. Surgery is now scheduled for Tuesday- I still have a bit of congestion and a bit of a cough which I think is post-viral. Has anyone been in the same situation? Is it likely to be postponed? On a completely side note, thank you all for being here and sharing advice and stories. It does make me feel less isolated. I’m 65 and my husband has been super-solid but he’s prone to extreme positivism which can be great but sometimes isn’t. We live with my 94 year old mother who quite probably doesn’t remember what’s going on. This would all feel very lonely without this online network.
Hormone Replacement Therapy?
Hi all — I’ve been reading a recent research- esp. from the US, including the book Estrogen Matters, which questions the idea that women with breast cancer should automatically avoid Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), and how it can help with longevity etc. I’m planning to speak with my doctor about it, but I’m curious — has anyone here looked into this or discussed HRT after breast cancer with their team? Would love to hear your experiences or any studies/resources you found helpful.Early breast cancer treatment decision
Hi everyone, I’d really appreciate hearing from others in a similar situation. I’m young, not (as) close to menopause, and recently had a lumpectomy for a 12 mm, grade 1, ER+/PR+ HER2- IDC. Margins were clear, and there was no lymph node involvement. My Ki-67 is low (10%), and I’ve been told I don’t need chemo. The surgeon noted there was no calcification and no need for PET-CT. No problematic genes. My doctor recommended both radiation and tamoxifen, but I’m feeling unsure. Looking at tools like Breast Predict for hormone therapy, the benefit to mortality risk is minimal (0.3% for 5 years, 0.7% for 10 yrs, 1.1% for 15yrs). I'm very healthy, exercise daily for years, healthy diet, don't drink or smoke. My breast are above average and their tissue is very dense. Women in my family have had rough menopause - incl. severe heart issues so I'm worried about the tamoxifen side effects, and I'm thinking an MRI (?) every 6 months is enough. Given how small and slow-growing the tumour was, and how low my recurrence risk seems to be, I’m struggling with whether I really need both/ either radiation and tamoxifen. I know they each reduce recurrence in different ways, but I’d love to hear from others who had similar pathology — especially other younger/pre-menopausal women - If you only did one (or neither), how did you make that decision? I'm meeting with the medical oncologist for the first time this Friday and keen to have an intelligent discussion that may challenge the conventional/ standard treatment. if you have any research to share - that would be wonderful! I'm grateful for any insights or personal stories you’re open to sharing — I’m feeling a bit stuck and trying to weigh peace of mind vs. quality of life. Thanks so much!
DCIS lumpectomy yesterday
Hi yall, so glad this service is available. Just had my lumpectomy yesterday and feeling the blues. Biopsy results next week, hoping for the best, expecting anything. It seems that radiotherapy is likely, which I had hoped wouldn't have to happen. It will take over my plans for weeks!!! I am struggling with social isolation following leukemia with immunity issues followed up by a bad dose of covid last year. Was just starting to get it together then this happened!!! Feeling like a lightning rod for cancer atm. So really this is probably small potatoes in the scheme of things, but still not really what I had planned. Appreciate any input.
Can't stop thinking about bad outcomes
Newly diagnosed ++- and scheduled for lumpectomy in 2 weeks followed by radiation if all goes to plan. I'm having intrusive obsessive thoughts about death, particularly dying during the surgery and what my funeral will be like. It's non stop and exhausting and I'm neglecting everything else. I've put together an 'instruction manual' for my husband so he knows how to look after our autistic son properly. Are these thoughts premonitions or just underlying fear? I want it all to stop!Woohoo .... I signed off with my Onc yesterday
It is nearly 8 years since my lump was discovered in Oct 2017, Biopsy in Dec, Surgery in mid Jan 2018 .... 4 weeks of radiation & just over 7 years of Hormone Suppressing tablets .... and I am now officially FINISHED with my treatment! I have officially been 'signed off' by my Onc! Back in 2018, I originally started with a male Onc - who didn't really have any interest in treating me - his first question was "Well, what are you here for?" (He hadn't even looked at my diagnosis/surgery/Radiation history!) Then he didn't believe me when I told him of my horrible side effects from the first AI that I was put on! So when he went on leave & I was lucky enough to see his Locum (a lovely Sth American Onc.) She immediately changed me to another AI (after a break of a few weeks) and 6 months later, to a third AI, that I then remained on for the next 7 years! I also swapped over to her at that appointment, and have been with her ever since - she was also my husband's Onc! So never be afraid to ask about changing from one AI to another if you are experiencing nasty side effects. And if you don't 'get on' with your Onc .... consider changing them too!!! 😉 It is SUCH a nice feeling! I thought I may become a bit emotional, but I was surprisingly cool, calm & collected!! My Onc even gave me a big hug & sent me on my way, wishing me all the best! She also said to Stay away from the Regional BreastScreen Buses and continue having my yearly mammogram and ultrasound at the facility that I've been attending for over 7 years now .... I have 100% faith in them. Their specialist Breast Cancer Ultrasound operator is the BEST - and I've been able to request her on all my visits so far & will continue to request her on my upcoming scans! hehe, I also had to confess to her that I had started weaning myself off the AIs from about Xmas .... as I was going to WA in May/June for a big Kayak Fishing Adventure ... and I wanted to be totally 'pain free' for that - and she said WELL DONE!! (Technically, I should have stopped taking them after 5 years, but I had requested to stay on a bit longer for the extra 18 months as 'backup'!) At the time, she said there was no medical proof to show that an extra 2 years would either benefit or hinder me - so said I could. So, I was not surprised when she was not at all concerned that I had finished a bit earlier. 🙂 (But I'd like to point out that you REALLY SHOULD discuss any change in taking your meds with your Onc before doing so!) I also left her with some information on the Otis Foundation, to pass on to the local Breast Care Nurse - Otis is a wonderful philanthropic organisation that organises the use of various Holiday Houses (donated by members of the public, many of whom have had family members with BC.) There are 'retreats' (as they are called) all around the country and they are made available from a few days to a week, to Breast Cancer patients for no fee. You just have to 'get there' and bring your food with you. All bedding etc is supplied. Some places are pet friendly - most aren't! You can also take family members and friends with you for the well deserved break. Your Onc/Breast Care Nurse/GP just needs to sign a form saying you are 'up to it'! Jump onto this site & check them out. There is usually a waiting period for some of the more popular ones (most are not available in school holidays) so the earlier you contact them to see if you can book one in ... the better! Give it a go! https://www.otisfoundation.org.au/donated-properties I also gave her a bunch of cards/brochures regarding a wonderful Victorian initiative (called Mending Casts) that runs 3 day Fly Fishing Retreats (once again at no cost) for women with Breast Cancer called Casting for Recovery.(They have recently extended it to women with ANY cancer!) They also have retreats for Men with Cancer too (called Reel Recovery.) Pretty well everyone running the program have been personally touched by cancer at one stage or another (by way of family members or friends) and they just love 'giving back' ... putting a smile on the dial - whether fish are caught, or not! You don't have to come from a fishing background to attend ... they supply all the equipment & show you how to use it (and fly casting is a gentle form of arm exercise too!).... and often there is a Look Good, Feel Better session as well (where you are shown how to use make-up effectively, and scarves to create a 'special look' whilst going thru/recovering from chemo) and a couple of chat groups, to discuss your journey so far - with those who've been thru it themselves, so they 'get it'!! They have a BC psychologist attending and also a couple of Paramedics who are qualified counsellors. I attended a retreat a couple of years back & it was just terrific. A few friends (and one husband) have also attended in the last 2 years and found it very therapeutic. I am still in touch with a few of the girls on my retreat! You don't have to live in Vic to attend ..... l drove down from NSW, visiting friends along the way, both down & back, so turned it into a 2 week road trip, fishing all along the way! Canberra has their own group ... but I think that Vic is the only other state doing the program just now. I would encourage everyone to 'give it a go' when you are well enough to attend!! All the info on the retreats can be found here. https://www.mendingcasts.org/casting-for-recovery-retreats-vic Even tho I've finished all my treatment, I'll still hang around on here .... 😉 Take care, & definitely consider checking out the above to 'retreats'!! Cos you DESERVE IT!
IMPLANT OR AUTOLOGOUS FLAP
Hi ladies, I am hoping someone couold share with me what the implants are like as a reconstruction choice. I had a DIEP FLAP in May and unfortunately had many complications and after 5 operations in 12 days and 3 weeks in hospital, they couldn't save my right breast 😭so I now have an expander in there and I hate it!! IT hurts!! I have spoken with my PS to see what the plan is moving forward and he said we can try a TUG FLAP (tissue from my inner thigh) or implant. I really wanted my breast to be mine and not implants but I really dont know if I can go through this process of operations and recovery again (bit of PTSD I think!) and if I have any more scars I'm going to look like Mrs Frankenstein!! But I am worried about having one implant boob and one of my own tissue, will it look odd, will it feel odd etc etc. I am soked with my left breast, it looks great, feels soft, great size and shape, I couldnt be happier! If anyone has been in the same position as me, I'd love to chat, but I'd also like to know how people feel about their Implant choice.
Zoladex
Hi, so I’ve just been started on zoladex and I’m wondering about side effects. I feel like I suddenly have IBS or something. I’m going to the toilet 5-6 times a day. Everything I eat is giving me stomach cramping, almost like continuous period pains. I also feel nauseous a lot. Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this? Does it calm down after a while? I’m scared to start taking the letrezol as well now in case it all gets worse. I was sent home from work today, first day back, because I was doubled over in pain from the cramping. It’s ruining my life and it’s only been 2 weeks.Bone and join pain side effects of chemotherapy
Hi, I’m new to this group and have only just started chemotherapy. I’m experiencing strong bone and joint pain from the chemo and wondering if anyone could suggest ways to minimise this. I’m taking Panadol but it doesn’t cut through. Im also doing the scalp cooling treatment. I’ve been advised to wash my hair only once a week. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to keep it looking fresh? It looks very greasy and bedraggled.
