@"Kiwi Angel" @JJ70 We were going to head to Fiji for our 20th wedding anniversary next year (actually wanted the Bahamas but the south Pacific a little more realistic!). We've never been overseas together and my husband loves a beach holiday (me not so much but he deserves one after taking on my niece (10) and nephew (12) at 60 and then looking after me for the last six months. He's a saint). I was going to save up the money from the job I was going to get this year... As with so much of life in the last decade, fate has spat in my eye. All our emergency money has gone, we've just found out my nephew needs orthodontic treatment (that'll be $7000 thanks) and the house is unfinished because the money that was put aside for that went into my chest. :/