It is important to normal, isn't it? I've decided that I'm going to make that a verb and from now on make attempts at normalling. I've been trying to put together a strategy for well-being to deal with this vortex of bc that I've been sucked into and normalling parts of my life is going to be part of it. I hope your grandchildren were lots of fun and you sent them home on a sugar high! (My kids always thought that they were getting away with murder at grandma's and grandpa's and that I would be cross about the amount of junk they at there but what happens at grandma's, stays at grandma's.)