And, @kmakm The way I feel after yesterday afternoon (and how it felt during), I think it's absolutely essential to think of something restorative to do. I knew that I was yearning to go to the beach so that bit was easy for me and one of the things we've almost always done with a late beach day is fish and chips in view of the ocean (because we almost never eat out and we live so far from the beach), so that came as part of the package. The gift my kids gave to me was recognising the importance of it to me when I said how much I wanted to go and actively choosing to be part of it (never a guarantee with teens and tweens) and helping make it so good. It was important to me too that it be our family enjoying ourselves, and each other, doing something from our normal.
So, put that thinking cap on and come up with something that is pure pleasure and relaxation for you - and fun!