I am so happt for you @sister! You got a beautiful restorative soul food day. Wonderful.
My sister had much of her palliative care at home and it was very much as you describe it. Tough. Everyone will be exhausted after your father-in-law has gone.
I like your bit about being, preparing & recovering from unwell. So true. I haven't done anything much 'fun' for a long long time. I'll put my thinking cap on and see if I can find something to slot in before my next op.
I hope yesterday's mood elevation continues for you today!