Okay, on a roll, now. I was just commenting on another thread about going back to work and wanting to make plans. It seems to me to be a common theme on here - many of us are organisers and desperately trying to claw some control back over our lives in any small way we can. I wonder if it's a common trait of bc women or if it's a common trait of women who gravitate towards discussion groups? I noticed in last week's Friday update the question around what we get out of this site (or something similar). Anyone doing a PhD out there? I'm sure these could be really good thesis questions with some massaging. What are our common threads? I sometimes visualise one of those glowy network images with brightly lit lines connecting women (and men) sitting at their computers all across the country. My mental image looks better at night because the lines are glowier! (Yes - I want that to be a word.)