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Shorelle
9 years agoMember
Where is that positive switch?
Stage 2a BC no node involvement, clear margins. HER- negative but hormone positive. Had a lumpectomy, 4 rounds of Chemo on Tamoxifen and decided to have a bi lateral mastectomy booked for 27th Oct so...
Unicornkisses
9 years agoMember
@Shorelle, as the other ladies have said, give it time, you will find some acceptance of where you are.
if you are like me though, it will come and go.
right now I am feeling fairly fed up, I am half way through radiation and although it is not nearly as bad as chemo, or recovering from two lots of surgery, I have had enough.
I will get through it, I know, and will be upbeat again when this has finished.
So be gentle on yourself, if you can find some little enjoyment in each day, even just a little ritual of making some tea, I also taped and watched a couple of favourite shows (that my husband had no interest in) during the day, you might find it helps.
I found that having little breaks like that to look forward to, that treated myself, helped me get through chemo and recovery from surgery.
if you are like me though, it will come and go.
right now I am feeling fairly fed up, I am half way through radiation and although it is not nearly as bad as chemo, or recovering from two lots of surgery, I have had enough.
I will get through it, I know, and will be upbeat again when this has finished.
So be gentle on yourself, if you can find some little enjoyment in each day, even just a little ritual of making some tea, I also taped and watched a couple of favourite shows (that my husband had no interest in) during the day, you might find it helps.
I found that having little breaks like that to look forward to, that treated myself, helped me get through chemo and recovery from surgery.