So im writing this just to get it out. I dont really expect a solution. Apologise in advance if the un pc nature of this is not nice. I am getting a counsellor soon. Ive been aware all along that ...
@MicheleR I totally agree. Sometimes it is just shit, and it needs to be. And we just need to acknowledge that it’s shit, sit with it (not literally thank goodness 😆) and then move on when we can. Trying to sugarcoat shit doesn’t turn it into a brownie 🤔