So im writing this just to get it out. I dont really expect a solution. Apologise in advance if the un pc nature of this is not nice. I am getting a counsellor soon. Ive been aware all along that ...
@Dear @MicheleR, Sorry you are having such a crap time. I've tried a lot of skincare lately, and the brand that seems the best is CeraVe. https://www.cerave.com.au/ I do recommend it. It contains ceramides, which heal the skin barrier.
To be honest, I feel like a bit of a dickhead re my rant/winge above. I've never typed so many expletives before. :|