@Dory65 id say you were normal. Drs are focussed only on action to solve the biggest problems (and thank goodness). But it lacks something. My surgeon was excellent but it was whirlwind. in rushing through he missed that I had a blood and needle phobia and wanted to wait to give me a port. by the time I started chemo it became very evident what a problem my phobia would be, Port was ordered and he revised his surgery strategy and was extremely helpful in getting me through with minimum stress to me.