My regret was not seeing a genetic specialist again (saw one 20 years ago) just 2 years earlier. I knew I had a sucky family history and was thinking now through menopause would have ovaries removed...knew could now be tested for gene. Little did I know if done just prior menopause it may have reduced my risks. But my life was just so darn busy . My mammogram did not show my lump. I felt it. We can't change the past we can only look forward at what we can do now. It's normal to have regrets. It will pass. Take care. Kath x