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Mic80
7 years agoMember
Saying no
So I have a conundrum.... I am in constant lingo between saying no to people/situations and then feeling terrible guilt about it! I’m trying to follow advice in regards to making this time about me an...
Afraser
7 years agoMember
Sometimes it takes having cancer to realise that we are doing something which is not useful. I learned a long time ago that there are things that we must do, things that we want to do and things that we should do. If we want to make changes/reprioritise, then it’s the last category we should dump. Of course, circumstances make a difference, but following our own feelings about what we want to do and what we are responsible for doing helps clarify things. Best wishes.