It's unlooked for change that's the big challenge. We all change, at least you would hope so or we will be pre adolescent for life. It's the changes you don't want that get you down. Over a longer time frame, I have a bit of the Jimmy Barnes thing going - I quite like the person I've become. Also not all of the changes are cancer-driven, my increasing refusal to cop bureaucratic stupidity (particularly in the corporate world) is simple older person grumpiness-because-I-can. It just all takes time, time that we would prefer to use doing something better. More enjoyable. Less irritating. Less reminding. Best wishes all.