It's Not Me
It's that old cliche ... It only happens to other people ... and although it's happened to me I keep hearing this voice telling me it's not really as bad as other women's cancers. I still have my bre...
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Hi Maryrose,
Thank you for taking time out to reply. I think you are right. It does take less energy to be positive, rather than negative and I have to remember not to try to get head of myself.
Some friends have been a bit stand-offish, while others are there just to listen. The ones that are an issue are the ones who offer advice. "You should have this treatment", My friend had it and ...", "At least you still have your breast!". I just want to smack them!
It seems there are no rules, rhymes or reasons for this insidious thing which has taken up residence in so many women. Even from the little I have read here, I have learned how personal the journey is, and will continue to be. There is no "one size fits all" and it has taken these couple of replies to my blog to make me realise this.
Since my diagnosis I have been more concerned about the process than the outcome and now I just want to get on with it.
Thanks for "listening".
Look after youself. San-Dee