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Dawnc
8 years agoMember
Here I go again
Well here I go. New here even though I joined in February 2014 when I was first diagnosed with BC. I wanted to hide away & not be associated with or communicate with all you lovely people as I knew nothing about BC so thought it would just go away & all would turn out ok! How very silly of me. I felt like a fraud if I went to comment as I only had two tiny lumps. So after I had a lumpectomy (WLE) & all my lymph nodes removed I renigued on radiation & hormone treatment. I decided as they were saying tiny I believed they were (the Drs) being redical. So I went along my way merrily just going to PA hospital whenever they requested me for U/S, Mamo etc. This went on for four years! I had made the right decision! Bam one night I felt a lump, VERY palpable this time high on my chest wall. Long story -short , 13mm Grade 3 invasive mucinous carcinoma ER strongly positive PR weakly positive, HER2 SISH positive close margin 0.1 mm from inferior. Advised it was a very aggressive tumor. My first reaction was do same as last time ignor it. But alas after 2 days or discussion with my two daughters decided I needed to take this serious this time. To say I am mortified is an understatement as I see from comments on this site it is a common reaction. So I say without fear or favour I join this active group with a heavy but hopeful heart for some advice & comfort which I probably should have four years ago. On a happier note my youngest granddaughter is getting married on 5th May 9 days time so I asked to have re-excision done after this so am booked in for 14th may to begin this journey once again. - clear
26 Replies
- kmakmMemberWhat radiant photos, beautiful open smiling faces! Quite the tonic @Dawnc, you must be very proud. K xox
- ZoffielMemberXxx
- SoldierCrabMemberBeautiful photos dawnc,
to write and post here
try this either write first or after posting a photo hit the enter button and it should go down a line for you to write before you post - FinchMemberBeautiful photos . The happiness shines in your faces. Now get stuck into your treatment. We're all behind you , going through treatments of our own, or finished and offering support. Keep in touch. We all hold hands together here. XXXX
- Kiwi_AngelMember@Dawnc fabulous pics - hope u had an amazing day.
- Jandy232MemberHi Dawn, one positive in your situation is that apparently mucinous tumours are somewhat less likely to metastasise to other parts of the body. Mine was mucinous too and that's what I was told. Although it was still aggressive like yours and I needed chemo. It's tough but you'll get through this. Good luck and enjoy the wedding.
- DawncMemberMe & Leigha. Sorry I dont know how to post a photo AND add writing will learn as I go along. I think I should write first then add picture? maybe someone can advise thanks.
- DawncMember
- They make a beautiful couple and your granddaughter's smile says it all @Dawnc
Wishing you all the best for 14th, you know we are here if you need us. Jane x - DawncMemberThe wedding was awesome had the most memorable day ever! Hope its ok tp post a pic of my gorgeous granddaughter & her now husband. Wed on 5th May just past. Now gives me something to look forward to - Great grand children! Thank you all for your lovely words of encouragement.