In a nutshell, you don't need any negatives in your life right now @kmakm , blocking was the right thing to do and cut all correspondence. Right now you need only positive energy to concentrate on your imminent major surgery, your four children and your husband. Blocking may inflame her but it won't hurt you. Clear her from your mind and replace with thoughts that make you happy, knowing you are doing your best and trying your hardest. Right now you need to concentrate on you. Xxxxx