I just want to say I have had an absolutely shit day because of my family. Not the one I live with, but the one I was born into. I won't bore you with the details, but I've been incredibly upset, and ...
@kmakm as long as your husband deflects the pressure off of you and he should be distant enough to carry it . But timing is everything - I’m not keen on reacting preferring , if I can , to act when I am calm and able to think clearly . ie better to be in control of yourself rather than under the control of others. Not sure if I said this well enough.Also I have noted others seem to get rattled if you don’t rise to their bait.