@iserbrown My husband has been magnificent. Yesterday he fired off a long overdue rocket, one I have restrained him from sending for years. It's probably going to cause an unbelievable amount of trouble but something has to change. I can't live like this any more.
Rest assured, I will be discussing this with my counsellor. But it will have to wait because next time I see her I need to talk about the bi-lateral mastectomy and reconstruction. A concept and event of which these family members seem uncaringly oblivious. They'd say they aren't, but if they truly were, they wouldn't be so mean and thoughtless.
Thank you for your support.