Family are not being respectful of my wishes
Dear all, I have invasive BC. I had surgery in May and I am currently having chemo. When I was diagnosed after much thought I decided to only tell my immediate family and a few very close friends. ...
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@Zoffiel that is the best laugh I have had over this. I like your style. Wish I had thought of responding as you did. How brilliant of you thinking on your feet like that.
Well I did hang up yesterday. My husband can take the calls now. He actually spoke to them this morning.
He told them they were wrong and he supports me 200%. They tried to tell him I was 'sick' (meaning mentally) but he refuted that too advising them there is nothing wrong with me.
They also tried to tell him that i must have not remembered what i told them and that they told people because that was in my best interest (they know better than I do what is good for me 😜 ) They said that I told them to do so. He refuted that too and said it most definitely i did not give any permission for their broadcast and reminded them that he was part of the conversation.
He asked them nicely not to call for the time being and said he wouldadvise them in due course how i am going. He told me it was a calm phone call and he was respectful but stood his ground.
My husband has witnessed their behaviour for a long time. He was a bit surprised how they tried to throw me under the bus to him but he told them I am fine and I am, especially given his support for me and the support from by people here.
Well I did hang up yesterday. My husband can take the calls now. He actually spoke to them this morning.
He told them they were wrong and he supports me 200%. They tried to tell him I was 'sick' (meaning mentally) but he refuted that too advising them there is nothing wrong with me.
They also tried to tell him that i must have not remembered what i told them and that they told people because that was in my best interest (they know better than I do what is good for me 😜 ) They said that I told them to do so. He refuted that too and said it most definitely i did not give any permission for their broadcast and reminded them that he was part of the conversation.
He asked them nicely not to call for the time being and said he wouldadvise them in due course how i am going. He told me it was a calm phone call and he was respectful but stood his ground.
My husband has witnessed their behaviour for a long time. He was a bit surprised how they tried to throw me under the bus to him but he told them I am fine and I am, especially given his support for me and the support from by people here.