Family are not being respectful of my wishes
Dear all, I have invasive BC. I had surgery in May and I am currently having chemo. When I was diagnosed after much thought I decided to only tell my immediate family and a few very close friends. ...
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Thankyou. I am trying @Fraser . To be honest if they weren't there ages I would cut them out as they are so toxic in there lack of boundaries. I continue to look after myself but I do get distracted by this nonsense of theirs. I think my mother is actually a narcissist.
I feel happy when they are not in touch with me. I try to limit contact but do on occasion see them and admit some of those times have been nice.
I try to manage them as they would contact me daily during this time if I didn't however but they got out of control.
I think I will not contact them and if they call again, I will let my husband handle that call. I doubt they will pull their nonsense with him. Maybe that will help things settle. I can then continue to focus on getting through my chemo and the rest.
I am sorry for your Victorian situation and not seeing your daughter. Sounds like you have a good relationship with her. I hope you can get together very soon.
I feel happy when they are not in touch with me. I try to limit contact but do on occasion see them and admit some of those times have been nice.
I try to manage them as they would contact me daily during this time if I didn't however but they got out of control.
I think I will not contact them and if they call again, I will let my husband handle that call. I doubt they will pull their nonsense with him. Maybe that will help things settle. I can then continue to focus on getting through my chemo and the rest.
I am sorry for your Victorian situation and not seeing your daughter. Sounds like you have a good relationship with her. I hope you can get together very soon.