Hi Nadine. Great post. I find it very easy to get emotionally thrown so I can sympathise with you. I really value the voice of longer term members. I'm finding things quite difficult at the beginning of my 'survivorship' and, as with everyone else, it's so helpful to hear from those further down the track.
I found the aggro in that post, and other recent contentious ones to be highly distressing. Not kidding, makes me sick to the stomach. I heartily agree with your comments on the subject.
I trust over the next few days you'll return to feeling more settled. I agree with @Sister. I find it's often helpful to remember in situations like this, that what people say is mostly about them. Take care, K xox
