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BlackWidow's avatar
BlackWidow
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5 years ago

Do you celebrate Valentine's Day ?

As yet another lonely Valentine's Day comes along I think of how others may be 'celebrating', how circumstances can be so different.
Some will be cuddling up and enjoying spending time together.
Some will be travelling near and far.
There may be flowers and chocolates, plans for a great day out together.
Some may be visiting hospitals or nursing homes, battling to even remember each other.
Some may just think it is all a beat-up money-grabbing venture.
With the new lockdown in Victoria I cannot go to visit my Valentine (he is at his final resting place).
However you are 'celebrating', please take the time to appreciate all you have.
Please, no political comments, allow others to enjoy this day if they want to celebrate it.
Hugs to all, especially those who have no-one with whom to share the fun of the day.
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  • Zoffiel's avatar
    Zoffiel
    Member
    5 years ago
    It's The Hound's birthday, 14 of Feb. Also the birthday of my dear friend (and monster braniac)Trish who lost her life to cancer in 2011. I'm not festive, but certain dates do give me cause for reflection.
    Weirdly, I've got three mates born on St Pats day. None of them would ever drink a green beer, but it helps me remember that I should send them, at least, a text. On a personal level, my partner tells me I'm loved so regularly I don't need to worry about a lack of flowers on a Hallmark occasion. 
  • Afraser's avatar
    Afraser
    Member
    5 years ago
    My partner wished me happy Valentine’s Day this morning. I think that’s the first time he’s mentioned it in over 40 years. See what you can focus on in lockdown? 
  • arpie's avatar
    arpie
    Member
    5 years ago
    Didn’t even known it was today.  One day morphs into the next.

    Never really ‘fallen For it’ as such ... it is such a Yank thing ....  tho in my 20s ... I do recall sending a ‘Good Luck’ card to an ‘ex’ ... but changed the “L” to an “F” ..... and adding ‘Good Bye’ at the top ....  and didn’t sign it ..... LOL.  He is Probably still wondering who sent it! 

    I hope this gives you a giggle ... 
  • June1952's avatar
    June1952
    Member
    5 years ago
    Yes, hoping everyone has a nice day whatever you are doing.  With the Vic lockdown it is a bit restricting so hubby and I just enjoyed a salad platter and some warmed focaccia, siting outside in the fresh air.  Our plan for a movie and lunch had to be cancelled but we had a nice time anyway, simple is often the best. One positive to all this - you don't need to make the bed as no-one can visit !   :)  (Our bed was made, though !).
    Happy Valentine's Day.   <3
  • FLClover's avatar
    FLClover
    Member
    5 years ago
    I have a partner after 7 years of being single. But I’m choosing to spend today with my eternal true loves: myself and my daughter 🥰♥️. I hope everyone has a pleasant day. Treat yourselves to something nice. We deserve love towards ourselves too, from ourselves 💝💋