Recurrence of Breast cancer .... 12 months on

Big Ts and short stretch pants work  just as well and are comfy.

Hi onemargie,
Thanks for your impute, it made me feel a lot better. With my initial diagnosis the surgeon suggested a mastectomy, I thought that was a bit radical at the time due to my ignorance ...... But in hind sight would have been a better choice (hind sight is great?!!) So now I am having mastectomy and asked if I could have immediate reconstruction but this was denied
(I am having my op through the public hospital system)
Ignorance prevails again, don't really know my options once I heal
Have been told I should see a reconstruction surgeon and be guided by him
Will have to pay for this but that's ok, it is what it is!

Margie what type of sleepwear would you recommend for hospital stay, I've been out this morning trying to buy a suitable button through top ...... Still searching ........

Thanks for your thoughts, Sandy

Hi sandy Ive had L mastectomy could of had lumpectomy and radiation then chemo but decided to take the whole thing off and am glad I did and I am taking the R off as a preventative at the end of the month. I recovered well from the surgery but haven't considered a reconstruction at this stage. I've been happy enough with the prosthetics. There are many reconstruction options just chat to your surgeon for the best advice but the reconstruction info on here is great too.  Hang in there you will get through it. Hugs.  Margie :)

Hi Sandy that is tough, hang in there. I had mastectomy with immediate reconstruction in 2014. The reconstruction group is good whatever you decide will be right for you. Take care

Hi Sandy,

Im in the same boat, recurrence at 4yrs though last year, had another lumpectomy and Chemo. Im 1yr free and have been suggested to now have a Mastectomy due to recurrence. I am wondering whether the options arent as vast as some of these ladies have suggested? due to it being a recurrence? Im not sure as I was told Diep Flap reconstruction, that their opinion would be to lose the entire breast, skin sparing or implant wasnt on the table. Mind you I have the plastic surgeon in a few weeks so I will see what he has to say about it all. I really dont want to do it, but dont feel I have a choice either, petrified and worried about the reconstruction and how I will feel physically and mentally. 

Hi Ladies,
Thanks so much for your advice and support
I haven' t shed a tear even when initially diagnosed 12 months ago .... But I have to admit I was teary eyed after reading your beautiful words

Many thanks Brenda5 x

Hey, just wanted to say, damn :(  Big e-hug floating your way.

Hi Sandy,
I can see the girls have given you great advice.  I have just joined you up to the Choosing breast reconstruction group.  It was after my recurrence and subsequent mastectomy that I started researching my options. I am so sorry you have had a recurrence, I remember well the shock at the time.  It does seem so unfair doesn't it? I am now 5 years post that second diagnosis and still going strong,   I hope you have lots of support around you.  There is always someone online here to offer words of support and encouragement.
hugs
Paula xx

Hi Sandy
Just a few things that helped me
- range of info (booklets, resources, dvd, My Journey Kit) available via BCNA and Cancer Council websites - Reclaim your Curves site is very helpful, too
- having list of prepared questions for my surgeon at every consultation ( and getting answers that made sense to me!)
- weighing up risks and rewards of each recon choice offered to me, making my own decision -  and sticking to it!
- having realistic picture of recon result I wanted and why I wanted it
You'll find lots of practical tips and and support through BCNA's network.
Just ask for whatever you need to make your decision.
Keep in touch. Di