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Dizee
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6 years ago

Recently diagnosed - Finally reaching out.

Hi friends 
I was diagnosed at the end of September after my first ever mammogram. I had turned 50 in August & thought I had better have it done. What a shock it was. My tumour was 6cm & I had cancer in 10 lymph nodes. My surgeon said I would have had it for 2 years.  What the! Two weeks after diagnosis I had a left Breast mastectomy & 15 lymph nodes removed. It happened all very quickly for me, even though the waiting for results was the worst & longest times I had ever experienced. Oh, & telling my two daughters, that  was heart breaking. I am recovering well from the surgery, it will be 3 weeks this Friday. 

Up till now I have been in denial about the whole diagnosis. Or maybe I have just  been plain scared. Not wanting to branch out to you all for support. Silly me. After finally being brave enough to have a look at this wonderful resource we are on & reading everyone else’s journeys & support they have received, I am so annoyed with myself for not jumping on board sooner.

i had my first appointment with my oncologist yesterday, & I am starting chemo on the 13th November. The information overload I received yesterday was massive & once again reality hit me head on. 

I will be having 4 cycles - 2 months of AC (doxorubicin & cyclophosphamide) & then 12 weekly cycles - 3 months of Paclitaxel. Before having radiation therapy & then 10 years of hormone blocker drug.

i am giving the cold cap ago. Has anyone else tried it? Was it successful for you? I would love to know. 

I live in the north eastern suburbs of Adelaide - Dernancourt  if anyone knows of any support groups in the area it would be appreciated. 

Thank you for listening.

xxxxx
  • Hi @Dizee and I am pleased you found us. There always seems to be someone who has gone through something similar. Many of the ladies, and some men, hop on the forum later in the evening so you will no doubt get more responses then. I wish I had joined up earlier than I did but my iPad wouldn’t let me in and I didn’t persevere, so well done on making the step. We have a few ladies in Adelaide so hopefully they will be able to help with a support group (although I personally think we are the best right here 😁). I am a big hugger so sending big hugs your way and know you are not alone. Any question or rant is welcome.
  • Hello @Dizzee  Thank you for posting, its a huge first step.  What a shock for you with your first mammogram.  You will find many supportive members here who Im sure will respond very soon.  If you need to speak with a cancer nurse for information or support please call our helpline on 1800 500 258.  Wishing you all the best with your upcoming treatment,
    kind regards