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mystic_marzipan
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2 months ago

Awaiting formal confirmation - terrified

Hi, I was called back last week for a biopsy of my right breast. The Drs said it was highly suspicious of cancer. At the time I was totally flawed and didn’t take anything in after that. Now I have so many questions having read lots of forums. I just wondered if anyone knows the answers. 

I’ve seen a lot of people saying about the USS being rates for likelihood of outcome but I wasn’t given any rating (unless I don’t remember). She did find multiple cysts and a large number of unidentifiable hard lumps all over the breast though. They only biopsied one main site and didn’t clip the area. I was told I have very dense tissue and it took 2 drs and 3 radiologists to get the biopsy. 
I heard them say that they had some floaters and some sinkers. 

So my brain has been working overtime while I wait for the results and I’m wishing I had asked so much more but I just fawned and panicked. 

Does anyone know if floating and sinking is a sign of anything?

should I just assume it is cancer given the drs statement and that the biopsy is just a formality to establish what type it is?

they didn’t biopsy any lymph nodes. Does that mean they didn’t see anything in them? They weren’t mentioned at all.

would the many lumps found in the same breast mean it metastatic? 

Why didn’t they clip? Is that because the site is so big already that they will be able to find it easily? 

Why oh why didn’t I stay clear headed to ask all of this. From the reading I’ve done it seems that they tend to know by the scans normally. 

This whole thing has thrown me. Im 45 and have a disabled daughter who is going through an acute mh crisis. Im also the main wage earner so if this is true and I can’t work then we will lose our house and I can’t imagine what will happen to my daughter. We are simply trying to keep her alive each day, it’s that basic. We don’t have the scope for this diagnosis emotionally and nether will she. I’m even thinking I should just not do treatment as make sure I’m around for the next few years for her rather than being here longer but being sick and unable to help her. 


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  • arpie's avatar
    arpie
    Member
    2 months ago
    So sorry to see you joining us here @mystic_marzipan .... it is all so confronting & so very scary.  We've all been at the stage that you are at now and it really mucks with your brain, even more than your body! xx

    I would suggest that you ring our help line today on 1800 500 258 ... they'll be able to talk you thru some of your issues and hopefully smooth things down a bit by answering some of your questions above. xx.  

    Take plenty of deep breaths & try & slow down ..... It is very important that you not get 'ahead of yourself' right now (difficult tho it is) with all the 'what ifs' ....

    As, until you get your biopsy results - it may not even 'happen'.  Re surgery/wages - Many members just had a week or 2 off work (some even less) depending on their surgery - so all going well you will not be off work for long, if you DO end up with surgery.  Do you have any sick leave up your sleeve? You shouldn't even lose wages!  Or use holiday time or even long service, to get thru this early stage, with a wage.

    I've never heard the terms floaters & sinkers relating to BC before ... do not assume 'anything' ..... try & keep yourself busy doing things you love doing, until you get the call for the results xx It is tough, I know & having a disabled daughter adds another level of complexity xx. I didn't have clips done at Biopsy ... tho some tiny things were left in during the surgery, so it makes it easier to identify 'the spot' in subsequent Mammograms .... 

    Record your meetings with the Drs, so you can go over them again at home, if you've forgotten what they said.  I did.

    PLEASE Stay away from Dr Google ... as a lot of info there is totally not relevant to your own situation & it is easy to scare yourself with reading the wrong stuff & assuming it relates to you.  

    Please Don't even 'think' about metastatic at this point in time .... you'll just scare the crap out of yourself. It also doesn't relate to the number of lumps or even a specific 'type' of BC ... it is a specific 'condition' ... and all going well - you don't have that condition!  There are SO many rabbit holes you can go down, whilst checking things on the internet and making incorrect assumptions ... just put trust in your Drs/Radiographers just now .... they are the ones trained to read the scans & biopsies .... 

    Dense breast tissue just complicates things a bit (mine was dense) as it just makes it more difficult to 'see' lumps on the scans.

    A Sentinel Node test is often done prior to surgery, to identify which nodes any tumours (if you have them) are likely to 'drain to' and if you have surgery, those nodes are usually removed & tested for the presence of cancer.

    Try & take one day at a time, one hour at a time, if needs be ..... chances are, your daughter would probably already know that 'something is up' from the change in your normal behaviour .... 

    take care & wishing you all the best - the waiting for results always really sucks  :(