Newly diagnosed, WLX / Lumpectomy - What's next ...

I guess I was a deer in the headlights and went about doing what they told me I needed to do.  I was in a lot of shock and didn't have all my wits about me.   I didn't have hubby with me as we were only expecting a routine answer that was indicated.  He couldn't get a car park close by hospital and has mobility issues so I went by myself.  Was all a nightmare.  Felt like i  was having an out of body experience.  I have learnt a lot about myself along the way.