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Re: Breast look and feel- one real and on implant
I am glad it gives you hope. While I don't have sensation in the nipples, I do have some sensation in other areas of the breast. I can understand your concern. I understand there is a greater likelihood of nipple sensation when doing the DIEP flap style of nipple sparing mastectomy (this is where they take fat from the stomach and move it to the breast under the skin to replace the breast tissue which is removed). I looked into the DIEP flap as I was told it had the best outcomes in looking and feeling like natural breasts. However, it was not the right fit for me after further investigation (eg. my veins and body fat level). You may want to discuss this with your surgeon. For me I am pretty happy with the cometic outcome of the implants, but they are not as soft as natural breasts. I can tell the difference. Something to consider. Recovery took about 6 weeks from memory. It was quite uncomfortable during this time (and I was taking pain medication). Hope you come to a decision you are comfortable with. Wishing you the best, it is a difficult decision.24Views0likes0CommentsRe: Breast look and feel- one real and on implant
Hello - I ended up having a double nipple sparing mastectomy with implant reconstruction (after lumpectomies with unclear margins). I am happy with the look of them (I think they look better than my natural breasts - rounder and perkier), however they do feel different (not as soft). In particular the one that had the cancer has thinner skin in one area where I can feel the implant. Also, I have lost quite a lot of sensation in the breasts. Overall though I am happy with the outcome. I had the double mastectomy for symmetry but also to reduce the risk on the other side because of dense breasts.102Views1like2CommentsRe: Whats going to happen next
Good news about the appointment with the psychologistcranky_granny. I hope it helps to talk things through. I also hope your bone scan provides some clarity. You do not have to be strong all the time. Good to remember not everyday will feel like this. I hope things improve soon 💐203Views1like0CommentsRe: Whats going to happen next
I am very sorry to hear things are so difficult at the moment. I can understand you feeling overwhelmed in those circumstances. Thinking of you. When things are hard I feel that it is important to look after yourself as much as you can and not overextend (not always easy). I hope things stabilise with you and your family’s health soon. In case it is helpful, you may wish to ring the support line - https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/articles/emotional-wellbeing/#:~:text=Contact%20BCNA's%20Helpline%20on%201800,can%20talk%20to%20by%20phone.199Views3likes1CommentRe: ? Chemotherapy
Hi TCH- that sounds like a difficult decision. My situation is a bit different as the oncologist recommended chemotherapy for me (stage 2; grade 2/3; premenopausal). She was able to see on her computer the likely survival benefit chemotherapy would give in my situation and it was over the threshold where she would recommend chemotherapy. It may be worth discussing at your next appointment if you have not already done so, the likely benefits and risks in that situation in more detail to see if that would assist. I was also offered oncotype testing but decided against it as in my situation it would not have changed the treatment. Perhaps in a case like yours, it would be worth considering that test to get more detailed information on the risk of recurrence to help inform your decision. Wishing you well with your treatment :)214Views1like1Comment
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