I thought I would let you know that I now have a plan, after taking all your messages into account. I have signed to go into a retirement village here in Pakenham, and my unit is on the market. I was called back to the retirement village as a unit became suddenly available and they though it would suit me, my dog and my cat, and they were right, a cute little house with lots of light, surrounded by flowers in pretty garden surrounds which I will be happy to work in. Since speaking to you last I have been invited to a number of occasions and also lunches at the retirement village. I believe I have made the right decision though the plan wasnt to stay in Pakenham, but it no longer matters where I am.
Thank you everyone for your suggestions, many of which I will follow up on on my retirement journey. x