Thank you arpie, more wise words which I very much appreciate - I will print out these messages, and hopefully it will all help me formulate a plan.
Riki and Tonia, that is a great suggestion for me and I will make contact to meet up with others. I did see a sign at the radiation place, and I think I took a copy for myself, will have to find it. Beryl, thank you for the advice, I have those plans in place already, though probably not the ACAT, will explore that.
Thank you all, you are all amazing. :smile: