Hi Bernadette, i was in the same situation this time last year.. Nov 27 to be exact ... i got the dreaded news that i had early stage breast cancer.. HER2 + & oestrogen + in left breast. I live in Kings Langley so not far from you .. Im 48. The good news is I feel great now ... When i look back on the last 12 months i can not believe what has happened & how fast it has gone! I had chemo first then chose double mastectomy/ auxillary clearance as it was in 5 of my lymph nodes and an immediate implant reconstruction... Which i am more than happy with ?? i then had to have 5 weeks of radiation which i only have a slight tan mark. More than happy to meet up with you to go into more detail i remember only too well how scary it is at first.. just take it one step at a time & deal with what is in front of you at that time. Just so you know i worked through most of my treatments & kept a very positive mindset which i have no doubt has helped me recover so well. Let me know if there is anything i can do to help x