haven't heard from my breast cancer care nurse since before the lumpectomy 20th march. next week I see the surgeon again ( I think she said ) dont know why , the week after I see the oncologist , god its taking forever I wonder if its spread since then . the docs apprentice said they had a clear margin. something else too autistic daughter is somewhat silently worried, she researches things like the suture lines from the lumpectomy hurt saw the doc about it. she is also a fuss pot very huggy and always wanting to know where I am ( not like her at all) I worry sick what if