tisme keep on with your posts to this discussion list - when it feels as though no one cares or is even listening you can bet there are women all around the country who really listen and understand. Your Breast Care Nurse can answer a lot of your questions and at times, just listen - always ask, its their job to support you. About the ,mental health people, its seven years since I was diagnosed with BC and in that time I've talked to quite a few professionals with the hope that they can help with difficulties - some have provided me with excellent support and others have been a complete waste of time - you take what you want, what works for you and leave the rest. What have I learned? Although I might not always get the answer I want I will always keep on asking. x Beryl