I’ve just caught up with your posts @tisme.
I’m so sorry you are going through such a dreadful time. No breast cancer diagnosis is easy to cope with particularly with all the other challenges in your life. It seems hard to believe now but you will feel better once surgery is done and your have a treatment plan in place. The uncertainty and waiting can feel unbearable until you will get some control back.
You will have support here and there will always be information and suggestions from those who have walked before you.
wishing you and your daughter all the best.
Sending a hug, Jane x