I wish you all the very best with your recovery and treatment. I am 44 also and diagnosed in June this year. I have had 2 surgeries and am very lucky to not require chemo as my cancer was non invavisve and not in my lymph nodes. What a rotten scary time this is but I tell you it sorts out who your friends are and I have been lucky enough to have fantastic support from my family, partner and friends also my neighbours. There is good in this world and staying positive is the best you can do for yourself allthough I do know it is hard sometimes. Good luck.
Andrea