Tracey!!
I think we certainly all agree, and I remember this dawning on me in the midst of being incredibly ill through Chemo...when I let go of all expectation of myself and life and just let everything be what it was going to be...total relief! I need to work but things worked out and I used to be a workaholic and I will NEVER EVER put work above myself again or anything else. I finally found myself a little and its not selfish at all...it cant be when its so important to love YOU above everything and everyone first and foremost.
Hugs Melinda xo