Is that right? Did you really say that?

Oh good grief @Loobylou! Some people have no idea of the concept of a time and a place... To be sure the question came from a place of concern, and definitely blissful ignorance of how a BC diagnosis works, but the knee jerk question to your husband... how insensitive. Sad to say I've had people ask me that question to my face. Literally "what's your prognosis?" I get the curiosity but I simply do not understand the lack of filter that allows you to say, "so are you going to die?"... FFS!