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Flaneuse
8 years agoMember
I've had:
"But you can get new boobs!"
"Is this your only option? My friend had a mastectomy and then got cancer in her chest wall and died."
"You're a fighter so you'll beat it"
"But your hair will grow back"
"Sending you a brilliant version of 'I did it my way'" (funeral song!)
"You look so well - you wouldn't think there's anything wrong with you."
"What sort of pain? I thought with breast cancer there was no pain."
"How long do they say it will take to get over the surgery? A couple of weeks?" (daughter-in-law thinking about babysitting)
"Why do you need to read all that mountain of stuff about breast cancer?" (daughter-in-law again)
"I need to catch up with you before your surgery" (Like, maybe you won't survive it) I don't have either the time, energy or desire to "catch up" with everyone in my circle!
And I've not even had surgery yet.
"But you can get new boobs!"
"Is this your only option? My friend had a mastectomy and then got cancer in her chest wall and died."
"You're a fighter so you'll beat it"
"But your hair will grow back"
"Sending you a brilliant version of 'I did it my way'" (funeral song!)
"You look so well - you wouldn't think there's anything wrong with you."
"What sort of pain? I thought with breast cancer there was no pain."
"How long do they say it will take to get over the surgery? A couple of weeks?" (daughter-in-law thinking about babysitting)
"Why do you need to read all that mountain of stuff about breast cancer?" (daughter-in-law again)
"I need to catch up with you before your surgery" (Like, maybe you won't survive it) I don't have either the time, energy or desire to "catch up" with everyone in my circle!
And I've not even had surgery yet.