@Zoffiel sorry to hear you had to do this twice
I’m not soft in the head but I do suffer from extreme anxiety and probably border line hypochondriac so working out the difference between normal aches and not normal is difficult and sometimes I wonder if my anxiety makes everything hurt more
anyway this is something I am working on
on top of that trying to understand how long my breast and armpit should be sensitive and sore after surgery and Rad,s
my mind like to run and create scenarios why I’m experiencing the sensations and they are never good
I do try and imagine the me in 10 years healthy and cancer free and what advice that future me would give myself
and I know it would say don’t waste the life you have stressing out and start living
anyway peace and love x