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Janet_A
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7 years ago

Breast Cancer, Childlessness and Us

This group has been formed to support the childless men and women by choice or by circumstance during treatment or after treatment.
As childless women, we are 1 in 8 women and incredibly, 1 in 8 women overall that will be diagnosed with breast cancer. 38% of the world's population happens to be childless.
Statistics aside, I wanted to form this group because of my own personal circumstance of going through treatment without the support of family and living in a fairly remote rural location in Central Queensland. Whilst I am a strong person it has been a sometimes tough road. Perhaps there are others out there in the same position as I am.
All are welcome to join!  Thank you, Janet

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  • Thank you both for commenting. A friend of mine also childless mentioned how we won't have that support as we age, to be honest it isn't something I really think about. Being childless also makes us more resilient. After I finished IVF and got my three free psychologist sessions, it was pointed out that because we are childless we are more likely to occupy ourselves than some that rely on family for support. Any thoughts on this?
    It is also a fact that because men and women have families it doesn't automatically equate to assistance in our older age. I see a lot of lonely people in nursing homes. I feel quite confident going into older age that things will go alright....
  • Hi Janet.  Yes, I will join and hope we get some others as well.  Anne
  • Hi there @"Janet A"
    Thanks for starting the group - hope you get many ladies to join as being childless can be a challenge as we age.  All the things myself and my partner did for our parents won't be happening for us.  To make matter worse we have no siblings to call on.
    Whether ladies are childless because they simply had no strong feeling to have the rug-rats around or, like me, found it was not a possibility (and I was a kindergarten teacher) we are all without that close support.
    I have joined and would encourage other childless ladies to join so we can get conversations going, provide specific coping strategies and generally support each other in times of need
    Congratulations Janet.
    Summer