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Anonymous
8 years ago

Well, it's like this

ok, it's gone from what the to.....it's like this.
My bone scan was yesterday.... The injection, a primary scan, then come back in 4 hours.
Back track a few days... Monday, my Mother in law fell and broke her hip. Lying in the rain, she called the ambulance and the neighbours. The neighbours provided blankets and an umbrella to keep the rain off.... What a woman.
Tuesday,I'm a member of the local SES, and I acted as the trapped person in a vehicle, while they held my head straight until they cut me out of the vehicle in the pretend scenario. That night, my Mother In Law had a pin and plate operation to her hip, what a busy day.
Yesterday, bone scan, initial injection, visit the Mother In Law whose hip operation was successful....whew glad she's okay.
Today? Phone call from my oncologist.... Come and see me as soon as you can today.....his office is 1 hour drive away, my husband had to drive the school bus and couldn't find a replacement, so I rounded up the closest friend I could find and drove down the highway.
Once we got there I asked that I go in by myself, trying to stay composed. The news isn't great...bony mets in 5 different places. Explains my pain vividly....will change from Arimidex to Tamoxifen, as the current melds are not working, then monthly injections to support my bone density. Referral back to my rads oncologist for rads and possibly a trial.
Drove home for 100 km with my friend who was absolutely wonderful. On getting home to my crying husband...received a call from my rads oncologist also upset. He will ring tomorrow to discuss what happens next.
1. Hospital for 4 days to put in a pain management plan
2. then onto rads to shrink my bony tumours
3. CT of pelvis, abdomen and thorax, and some blood tests
4. Possibly a clinical test to manage my chronic condition

What a week... Hopefully not to be repeated...my head is spinning, my husband and I are numb

Rise above it and try to move forward.......What the

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  • WTF!!!. Get your plan of attack and pain management sorted and fight the rotten bastard head on. kick the bloody cancer in the balls Tracey I know you can do it. Thinking of you keep us posted. Biggest hugs to you and your family. Margie xx 
  • Oh, bugger! This is a vile disease.  Pain management is good, but none of us ever want to be in the position of needing it. Best of luck with everything, Tracey.   Xxx
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    Thanks to you all for being there, for your support an cuddles. All received and cuddles right back xxxx
  • Double crumbs Tracey. I'm absorbing your news and don't know what to say! Hopefully in the morning I can say something deep and meaningful. For now my heart goes out to you. Sending you a virtual hug. Take care from Christine xx 
  • Oh Tracey. I haven't logged in for ages, but I read posts regularly. When I saw your post just now, I just had to log in.  I saw your post last week, & you have remained in my thoughts. 
    You were such a support to so many, as I was going through treatment. I hope that we can support you now, in some small way. 
    Sending hugs, Lyn
  • Oh so sad for you both. I know you will be doing all you can with boxing gloves on (although painting might be challenging like that).  I hope your pain is sorted very soon and all stabilised. #fuckcancer.
    Kath x
  • Oh @"Tracey B" what an awful day....I am so sorry to hear that you received news like this. All I can do is send a big warm enveloping hug. Thinking of you Nikki xxxxx