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Cath62
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4 years ago

One Year since the diagnosis feeling strong and well

Hi, today it is exactly one year since my bc diagnosis and I am a little reflective. What a ride it had been. I still remember clearly the phone call and shock, terror, nervousness, sadness etc with that news. What took place after that news was a roller-coaster ride of treatments with physical and mental and emotional impacts.

In the last 12 months I have had 2 surgeries, 4 months of chemo and a month of radium and now pills. It was tough for sure but I made it through.

I think I am very fortunate as I didn't have too many side effects or set backs. I was fatigued for sure and pretty emotional at times. I did my exercise which I think contributed enormously to my well being. 

I am grateful to my husband and son for their support. I had a couple of good friends and family too. I am grateful for the doctors and the skill and knowledge. I am also grateful for the support I received here on bcna. I would have been lost without this group at times, especially in those wee hours of the morning. Thank you!

Today I feel strong. I am proud of myself for getting through this. I am grateful for my resilience and determination and courage. While I never wanted to join this group, I have made good friends and I have grown and healed in many ways. BC has given me a different life and view of the world and I am thankful for that. 

I have much to look forward to including various road trips, fun times with friends and family, my walks in national parks and the beach, my exercise and just everyday life. I am also going to be a first time grandmother later this year which is super exciting. I love babies.

There is light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for reading my story and being there for me. 
  • Thank you @Mazbeth and @Julez1958. I wanted to put something up to mark my 1 year anniversary and I know all shitty cancer moments i had, but life is life and it goes on and we do as well. It's good to be happy and at peace. I do have some long term side effects for sure but my focus is not those. My focus is living my best life. 
  • Hi @Cath62 your post was so good to read and will be very reassuring to a lot of people - especially those who are experiencing those terrifying few days after the initial diagnosis. Thank you for letting all of us know how you are going. You should feel incredibly proud of how you have come through all of this, it is fantastic! M x
  • Hi Cath62
    I love your headnote.
    Because we post and read here for a whole host of reasons , to vent, to ask for practical advice , it is important to clock  the milestones and the positive experiences and feelings .
    So all the best and a message for everyone on here, life has its good moments too!
  • Fantastic news @Cath62!! I remember when you joined. It was just after me ๐Ÿ™‚. So glad to read that youโ€™ve come through this stronger and that you acknowledge your strength and resilience. Itโ€™s very important. Good on you, itโ€™s been tough, but you used it in a positive way. It certainly makes us grow. To a cancer free future ๐Ÿฅ‚๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ’Ÿ๐Ÿ’Ÿ๐Ÿ’Ÿ
  • Well done Cath! Let the good times roll!!! XXX
  • Hi @cath,

    Fantastic. Great that you are feeling strong and positive. Its one heck of a journey.

    Hugs x
  • Good on you @Cath62 ... youโ€™ve done the hard yards and can now reap the rewards! You know now that whatever you put your mind to - that you can achieve it! 

    You are so right ... none of us wanted to join this group, but thank God, we all did!  Valuable and caring friendships have been formed with common bonds - a sharing of  knowledge that helps everyone.  But best of all, welcomed with opened arms, no matter how far flung we may be in this great country of ours.  Shoulders to lean on, shoulders to cry  on. 

    How wonderful to learn that you will become a Grand Mum .... @iserbrown and @"Annie C" will be able to help out with baby patterns, if you are a knitter or crocheter (not sure if I made that term up!?)

    GO GIRL!  Take care xx